Monday, January 18, 2010


Time has come for all of us to ask ourselves questions such as, “Does change plunge me into confusion?” Life can take a sudden turn and we are thrown off-balance, lost, bewildered, and hurting. We could believe nothing seems to be happening and we feel stuck.

Whether through challenging experiences or simply a nagging sense of stagnation, our Spirit always presents opportunities to evolve spiritually.

The key is to learn to control our thought processes and bring them into line with reality. Our Spirit is calling for a positive understanding of truth and a willingness to receive soul guidance.

Spiritual direction sometimes calls for a spiritual companion or soul friendship with a mutual relationship of trust, sharing and listening. One person serves as a spiritual director (listener) and the others role is to participate in the process. The feedback from our spiritual companion gives feedback on what they have heard us share and act as a mirror or witness to the feelings shared.

Though the process of honest and open communication, of sharing and listening, old ways of thinking that no longer serve us can be discovered and released.

Please consider journaling answers to these questions while utilizing the contribution of a spiritual companion. Asking the right questions has the power to change your life.

· Do you let yourself be consumed by obligations and resigned to drudgery?

· What and how much do you believe you deserve from life?

· What is your level of self-worth? How much do you truly appreciate who you are?

· What about “should not, can’t, or fears?” This forbidden negative territory limits your dreams and aspirations! It is important that they are identified, processed, and eliminated from your thoughts and belief system.

· Do you delay gratification for later in life?

· Does your life feel like all work and no play?

· How often do you dare to ask for what you want?

· How much of your time is spent on what you need to do, vs. what you want to do?

· What are you pretending not to know?

· When is the last time you had a really good belly laugh?

· Are you self-validating? When is the last time you experienced it?

· When is the last time you said yes when you really wanted to say NO---- or the other way around?

· How does your age affect your decisions?

· What hearts desires have been put on a shelf? What excuses do you tell yourself for not taking any action?

· Do you eat to live or live to eat? What is the difference between the two?

· What are your new goals for 2010?

Thursday, January 14, 2010

The Power in the Pause (Using the Solar Eclipse Energies) 4 minutes

Wonderful things happen when you take time to experience your life through refection, meditation, a focusing on living in our energetic field. This constitutes a cosmic “Pregnant Pause.”

The pregnant pause is what I am calling this chance to reflect during the very active Solar Eclipse and New Moon astrological period. We are also in between a Lunar Eclipse and Solar Eclipse holding transformational energies for the body, mind and spirit.

There has been a significant change in the frequency around the planet: There is lightness because the clearing of dense lower vibrational energy has been occurring for some time and has now increased noticeably.

The call to act has always been constant but now the call to action is louder, like the drum of a beating heart--- listening for your supporting energy.

Take time to find the rhythm to your actions. Follow that sound, because it leads you to your true self, your true self-expression. Without it you are not in your full power and not enjoying your potential.

The journey is occurring for all---regardless of where you may be in the process of spiritual awakening. The birthing of new energy once completed, does not discriminate against who can benefit and who can grow. It is not the number of years, or the dedication of the past, it is always the intention you hold now that matters. What has been of the past has brought you to where you are now; what is occurring right now is what matters.

The cosmic energies may cause symptoms of a headache, tiredness and strange feelings of an over-emotional reaction. You might not be sleeping well or feel anxious. If there is a physical problem, spirit will now find a way to give you a message or get your attention.

I would like to give you three examples:

Someone has been in perfect health but wakes up with the skin looking gray, pain in one leg. This is clearly a warning to consult a doctor. From my psychic platform of looking at this case, I found that he will be fine but a correction needs to be made in his health program. He was given a clear warning. The healing energies gave a sign to him. This person will have another opportunity to receive the attention his body requires.

A man is going about his day, no past tendencies for headaches, when he suddenly feels nauseas and sick. He regurgitates his stomach contents and then goes to bed. The next day he feels energized. His nervous system was holding stress and the energies wanted to travel through the spinal column and activate new wiring in his brain. Sound strange? It gets better!

A person ordinarily doing fine has for the last several days felt an anxiety, but does not know why. Feelings of fear and insecurity keeps this person distracted, near tears. Again, the nervous system needs to be relaxed, open and receptive to receiving additional life force. This person is a sensitive by birth and will soon appreciate this energy download of new wiring and its sensory capabilities.

The body is communicating unconsciously with an energetic bombardment. We must relax the tensions building up on our nervous system to receive these higher eclipse frequencies that bathe all life on the Earth.

The pause is a spiritual platform for observation on all levels. In a personal-awareness-state of mind, your spirit guides and angels will be waiting to communicate with you. I call it a “Pregnant Pause” because it is filled with amazing possibilities wanting to birth/manifest into your life.

What have you been praying for or asking your guides to help you with?

It’s time to take a deep breath and relax. What’s been on your mind that you want to avoid or change?

In the time-out (pause) there are beautiful opportunities and adventures that can be experienced from doing a deeper introspection.

We hold within ourselves a sacred space enabling us to find our truths and more of our real spiritual identity.

Some people are being called into clearing their auric field to permit higher frequencies of exchange. Others are ending careers or relationships and developing new ones.

People will be affected in many different ways but I believe the key to understanding this energetic opportunity is to relax, breathe deeply and allow clarity of heart and mind to re-connect with a higher mind.

Our perceptions as to what is right or wrong may change to hold less self-judgment and shame. We will view the mirrors of influences and emotional patterns waiting to be healed. Under this astrological –eclipse alignment we can choose to have the important conversation with our inner-self that we have never had so far---and that includes welcoming spirit’s contribution.

The pause allows us to slow down and acknowledge all that is wonderful within ourselves and thankfulness for breaking up old influences and illusions.

Questions to ask Higher-Self:

1. Am I listening?

2. What is my body telling me?

3. Am I being authentic in how I present myself with others?

4. What old stories of my past am I still feeding energetically (anger, resentment and blame) and how is it affecting my physical body?

5. What would happen if I stopped caring what other people think about me?

6. What action would I take if I chose to become fearless?

7. What blessings do I desire from this cosmic wave of pure life force?

8. How can I love myself more---body, mind & spirit?

9. In how many other ways can I use this power of the “pause” in my life?

Your growth can be experienced on levels never before experienced. The physical, emotional, mental and spiritual trauma, shattering and discombobulating of the old is now shifting. And where you know you are ready to shift ---make that leap in knowing faith.

It is through your actions, you will lead others. Your actions towards your true-self will create a wave of light, a ripple of heaven on Earth across the planet, vibrating and enhancing the call to action for others.

Never doubt the power in the pause as our divinity is guiding us from inside out.

Thank you for listening,

Badeish Lange